February 16, 1925 ~ November 19, 2020

Born in: Sioux City, Iowa
Resided in: Torrance, California

Virginia (Ginny) Anne Ellis died at the Huntington Retirement Hotel on November 19, 2020.  She was 95 years and  276 days young.  Ginny was preceded in death by her beloved Mother, Mimi Ellis, brothers Paul “Bill” Ellis, John “Jack” Ellis and best sister Elizabeth “Bette” Juleen.

Ginny was born in Sioux City, Iowa to Paul and Blanche (Mimi) Buckio Ellis on February 16, 1925.  After her father died very young of a sudden heart attack in 1939, her ever courageous mother packed the family and all they could carry onto the train and moved to Beverly Hills, California. There Mimi pursued apartment management training and a new life for her and her children. Ginny, just 14 and youngest of the four children, enrolled with sister Bette in Beverly Hills High. She admitted to being a little star struck around some of her already famous classmates.

After graduation in 1942, Ginny attended Berea College in Kentucky. But she missed her family and the California lifestyle, so she returned home to work as a bookkeeper and accountant for the next 46 years. However, she always regretted not finishing her education, so in 1991 at age 65, Ginny earned her Bachelor of Arts degree from California State University – Dominguez Hills.   She was most proud of this accomplishment, as were all of her family and friends.

Since her official retirement coincided with her college graduation, Ginny used her new education to pursue what she loved doing, not necessarily what she could get paid to do. She had been writing poetry since she left Iowa, but now redoubled her efforts. She became a self-taught webmaster so she could show her work. She took up drawing and painting to illustrate her poems.  She made new friends online, who set her poems to music or added their own illustrations to her website. She even expanded one of her poems into a full length book, “Liz, the Condo Cat”.  By the time of her death, Ginny had a portfolio of roughly 8 thousand poems. Ten of her best were published in various anthologies like the “Chicken Soup for the Soul” series.

Ginny especially enjoyed afternoons poolside at her Del Amo co-op with other longtime residents, discussing current affairs and the latest improvements in computing. Often these discussion would include a glass of wine. If the talk turned to politics, she often shared her fervent wish to cast a ballot for the first woman President of the United States. That wish wasn’t fulfilled but she was very pleased to see the first woman VP win election in her last days.

Ginny did not suffer fools gladly but underneath the skin of a lioness beat the heart of a pussycat, on full display whenever she was doting on one of her own sweet kitty cats or someone else’s puppy.  Ginny was known to pinch a penny, yet she was also incredibly generous to her chosen charities, especially the Braille Institute, the Salvation Army and the Animal Humane Society.

Surviving Virginia

From Minnesota – niece Lea Dahl and husband John, nephews: John P. Ellis and Paul N. Ellis and wife Jennifer.

From Texas – nephew Reverend Stuart Juleen

From Washington – nephew David Ellis and wife Elaine.

From California – niece Jackie Ludwig and husband Jack

and many grandnephews and grandnieces and friends

A “Celebration of Life” will not be held at this time because of COVID – 19 restrictions.

The Ellis, Dahl, Juleen and Ludwig families would like to express our heartfelt gratitude to those who cared for Virginia, including Ida, Carolyn, Dorothy, Ges, Sally and all the wonderful nurses and caregivers at the Huntington Retirement hotel and the Agape hospice.  We thank you for the kindness, patience and the love that you gave to Virginia and her surviving family.

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  1. candle 3Beautiful tribute! I remember meeting her on our trip to California and visiting her in her condo. What a strong, passionate woman!

  2. candle 7Lea frequently spoke about her Aunt Ginny – a woman so far ahead of her time. She was such an important family member to her niece and made sure to stay connected with Lea after her mom died. John has been a devoted nephew-in-law throughout the years. These two made Ginny so proud. Little did Ginny know how many of us savored stories about her. Bless you, Ginny and have a pleasant transition to the other side.

  3. candle 2What a lovely tribute to Virginia. She was an amazing woman, and I enjoyed the time we spent together. I met her over 5 years ago through South Bay Village, a volunteer organization that helps seniors remain in their homes. She was my first client. I took her to her doctors appointments, shopping, lunch on many occasions or just for frequent visits to sit and chat about the problems in the world! She was quick witted and a joy to be around. I will miss her dearly.

  4. candle 7I lost contact with Ginny in 2016. I believe she was 91 at the time and battling lung cancer, but claimed she was doing well. I had fallen in love with her poetry a number of years earlier, and we emailed from time to time. I also had been writing poetry and around that time had ceased (life got in the way). Today as I was checking birthdays for this month, I realized that tomorrow would be her birthday and got to wondering how she was doing and if she was still with us and writing poetry. Well, I’m betting she is still writing poetry (for the angels). 🙂 Sorry to learn of her passing. She was a special lady. Though we never met in person, I did enjoy the few e-mails we had exchanged. May her soul rest in peace.

  5. candle 1Dear Ellis, I am awfully sorry hearing that you passed.
    I pray for you wishing you all the best wherever you may be.
    God Bless !

  6. I am so very, very sorry to hear of Ginny’s passing. I loved her and thought of her as my “other mother.” I met her in the internet where we became good friends. I thought she was the greatest poet I had ever heard of. I loved her poetry so much. I had a special section in my website that was dedicated to Ginny with her poetry.

    I had the opportunity to go to California and stay with her several times. We enjoyed each other’s company and got along really well. I used to talk to her on the phone about once a week.

    Then one day, I called her and her phone was out of service. I became worried and called all the people she had given me the numbers to, but unfortunately, I was unable to contact them. I think they may have all passed away by then.

    I have done searches in the internet for Ginny but never had any luck. I did another search tonight and saw that she had passed away.

    Ginny, if you can read this from Heaven, please know you meant the world to me and I loved you from the bottom of my heart. You were such an inspiration to me and I had a deep admiration for you. Thank you for all the things you did for me and for all the joy you brought to me. I hope we will meet again someday.

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