September 26, 1927 ~ May 12, 2020

Born in: Covington, TN
Resided in: Los Angeles, CA

LaDora Jean McNeal was born in Covington, Tennessee on September 28,1928 (or September 26, 1927 by some accounts) to Curtis and Henrietta Hawkins. Henrietta died six months after the birth of LaDora. LaDora’s maternal grandmother, Martha, raised her until her death; then LaDora’s maternal aunt, Willie Berniece raised her as her own daughter. 

When she was 18 years old, LaDora and Willie Berniece moved to Los Angeles. Soon afterwards, Willie Berniece married Curtis Smith, who loved and treated LaDora as his own daughter. Curtis introduced LaDora to Ruben McNeal, and they wed in 1953. Their union produced one daughter, Yvonne Elizabeth. 

Relationships were very important to LaDora. Her most important relationship was with Jesus Christ — her absolute faith, trust, love, and devotion to Jesus were extremely strong, giving her much strength and endurance during challenging times. As a child, LaDora was raised Baptist; however, she converted to Roman Catholicism so that her daughter could be baptized Catholic. It is through her work at Ascension Catholic Church with the Society of Vincent de Paul and at St. Albert the Great Church School where she worked as a teacher’s assistant that she developed very meaningful relationships as friend, “mom,” and “grandma.” At the time of her death, she was a faithful member of Bel-Vue Presbyterian Church in Los Angeles. 

LaDora died peacefully on May 12, 2020. LaDora leaves behind many loved ones: her daughter Yvonne and son-in-law John Reyes; granddaughters Cindy Berry, Samrawit Eyasu, and Lori Acosta; grandsons Vernell McNeal, Timothy McNeal, and Kelsey McNeal; godson Jonathan Acosta and his wife Nancy Acosta; “adopted children” Rosie Colon & her husband Johnny Acosta, Janice Cooper, MaryDiane Scott, Argelia Quesada & her husband Jesus; Fr. Tesfaldet Asghedom, cousins Katherine Winston and Genell Patterson, and sister-in-law Lena McNeal.

LaDora is preceded in death by her husband Ruben McNeal and his children from a previous marriage Ruby Shipp, Floyd McNeal, Homer McNeal, and Virgil McNeal, and best friend Juanita Scott. 

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  1. candle 7To my beloved Grandma Nina.
    It’s me your godson Jonathan. I never told you but later in life that you were the only person I ever had to talk to. Who always understood me and never judged me who loved me for who I am. You where always there. I LOVE YOU Nina and always will be in my heart. I never had an will have anybody with the heart like yours.
    I love you Nina an I am sorry that I wasn’t that boy you wanted me to be. However you did make me the man I am now. Thank you.

  2. candle 4My sister, Mary Diane Scott, has aphasia and dementia, so I am writing this on her behalf. She always called her Momma Jeanie. Mary enjoyed visiting with her and chatting on the phone. Years ago she and her cat Pumpkin were house guests at Mommy Jeanie’s. Mommy Jeanie was always so kind and gracious and welcoming. I was fortunate to join her on her last few visits.

  3. candle 8Nina how I miss you. You have always been my mom, best friend and more. You may be gone but will never be forgotten. Until we meet again. Love you always

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