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  1. Mom, Tomorrow is your b-day and eventhough you have been in heaven a year, I still miss you like crazy. It is really hard without you. Adri misses you mom and so does the boys. Life will never be the same. My heart is filled with love for you and everyday I am more grateful for all you have shown me. I love you mom and can’t wait for you to hold me.

  2. My heart is with everyone, especially with Cynthia. I will never forget her beautiful smile and joy she brought to me and my family. I will see you one day in heaven. Comadres forever.

  3. Mom, Life will not be the same without you. God tells me you are in a better place and not suffering, but the reality is that I am lost without you. There will not be a day that goes by that I do not think of you. You always told me I was like you and as much as I denied it, the truth is, I am. You were the only one who told me what I wanted to hear. Your last words to me were telling me how proud you were of me. Memories in my heart is what I have now and although it hurts I know you will be looking down on us and I will live my life to make you proud. Love you mom, Marlo.

  4. Sister, I could only imagine how lonely you felt the day you went away. You gave so much of your love to your family that all you wanted was the same in return, but instead all you would receive is grief and a sense of not belonging. I only wish that one day, you will come and tell me, what it was that made you go away. I’ll never forget all the good/bad memories that you and I shared as brother and sister. I want to thank you so much for all your love and how you made me feel so special every time you would see me. Regardless of what I did, I could never do wrong in your eyes. Thank you so much for the sister that you were to me, I will never forget you. My love I have for you is ever so big that words cannot explain. Every day I am going to miss you more and more until that day comes when we once again will be reunited. Jap, I know that you are with mom now, please don’t forget to tell her how much I MISS and LOVE her. With never ending love, Your Brother Hector

  5. Aunt Cynthia, I know ur in a better place but i wish i could of told u how much i loved u for all that u;ve done for me. U would insist on helping me raise my daughters and even if u werent capable at times you always had great intentions. I can remember uncle hectors expression on his face when u offered to babysit my girls when u stayed in Lakewood. U and the girls had something in common and that is when u 3 would sit down to eat it looked like ur shirts enjoyed it more than u. Im glad to have been there 4 u when u had asked of me. Now who is gonna sit down with me and drink a nice cold pepsi. I never admitted it to u b4 but tia you were my favorite aunt. Love You Always Ur bling bling Paul Rivera

  6. DEAR GRANDMA/MOM, MAN i REALLY AM GONNA MiSS YOU SO MUCH. YOU MENT THE WORLD TO ME, AND U STiLLL DO. YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE FOR ME NO MATTER WHAT. YOU WERE THE PERSON i COULD TELL EVERYTHiNG TO. i HAD SO MUCH TRUST iN YOU JUST LiKE YOU DiD iN ME. iM GONNA MiSS U CALLiNG THE HOUSE LiKE TWENTY TiMES A DAY JUST TO CHECK UP ON ME AND SEE HOW i WAS DOiNG. i ONLY WiSH THAT WHEN THE PHONE WOULD RiNG THAT iT iS YOU WHO iS CALLiNG TO TELL ME Hi BABY i LOVE YOU OR i MiSS U BECAUSE I LOVE YOU AND MiSS YOU TO MOM. WELL NO MATTER HOW FAR APART WE ARE iM ALWAYS GONNA LOVE U AND THiNK OF YOU EVERYDAY. i LOVE YOU MOM AND iLL NEVER FORGET YOU! YOUR BABY, ADRi

  7. Mom, I am going to miss you so much. I am going to miss my phone ringing every hour no matter how many times we talked. Most of the time you just wanted to hear my voice. I was just like you in every way. I just wished you could be here to see my wedding. Mom, you will be in my heart forever and remember you are the best mom and I will never live a day without thinking of you. I can’t wait until I see you again. I know you are not suffering anymore. I am sorry for not telling you everything I wanted but I know you knew I love you so much. I still have the messages you left me on my phone at home so I could always hear your voice. Love you mom!!

  8. Cindy, Today I woke up hoping that this was all a bad dream and that you would call me. But my phone did not ring. So here I am facing another day without you here. As each day goes by the harder it is for me to accept that your gone. I just want you to know that I love you so much and everyday I will miss you more and more. With all my Love forever and ever, Your Bro

  9. JAP, Here I am at our brother Hectors house, thinking of you. I really didn’t think that the day you would pass away was so close. Jap, I am very sorry that I wasn’t close to you like I was before.. It must be my old age. Jap, I’m going to miss you very much. It is really hard for me to write this good-bye letter. I can’t believe your’e gone sis, I love you. I remember the times when you had called me, and your last words every-time were ‘I love you.’ And I would say okay, talk to you later. I know you were waiting for that, ‘I love you’ back.. But you know that I loved you very much. Jap, you did everything you could to help me and my family. In any way you could. I love you for that. We are all going to miss you very much. Remember when I said I would not cry anymore for anyone else who died, I lied, I haven’t had a day of not crying for you since you left Jap. I will do my best to watch over your kids, Marlene, Melinda, and Johnny boy. Cynthia, you always get what you want, like for example, you said you wanted to be with mom…. I have asked for a long time to be with mom, but no hope. God doesn’t listen to me. Wel, say hello to everyone ; mom ,dad and Nina . Hope to see you soon Jap. Save me a spot, but not too close to you.. cause you talk too much. (laughing)Im glad I brought you some pies at the end, not 1 but 2 and you loved them, cause you ate them both in one night. Everytime I see a ‘lemon meringue’ pie, I will think of you. LOVE ALWAYS, YOUR BIG SISTER JEANNIE RIVERA .

  10. Comadre, They’re no words to express what my heart feels. It feels confused, anxious and in search for some reasonable explanation as to why you were called home so early. We have had numerous hours talking about religious subjects and I recall one of them being “When & why we are called home”. There is always a reason why things happen, and at times it is evident why things like this happen, but with all my loigic, I can not comprehend as to why. I hope that in your spiritual life, you will have all that this world was not able to offer you. I hope that it is full of love, the love of G-d, the love and company of all your loved ones that went before you, the serenity we here are always looking for. I will miss those late night chats, the times when we would watch your favorite novelas, or have our daily lunch dates. Those are the things that I will miss the most.

  11. Well, woke up this morning to hear you had left us,I guess I’m still in shock cause I know that you were the strong one that kept everyone in check. I know how much you loved your brother and sisters and all your familia and of course me, we may have not been close but when we did see each other I know you loved having us over and I will never forget how much you always use to talk about your uncle Chito, well now your with tia and all who have left us to be in a better world, this is not goodby cause I know we will all see each other again. You will be dearly missed but never forgotton, Love you, Your Prima Irene, Javier Lopez

  12. Cynthia, It’s hard for me to believe that you are gone. It seems like just yesterday I was talking to you on the phone. Cynthia you were just like a daughter to me and I hope you never forget how much I love you and going to miss you especially our daily conversations. Although, I moved to Texas, it didn’t make a difference to you because every morning you would call me to see how I was doing. And when I came to LA, you made sure that I stayed with you. I am going to miss those day of us watching TV, laughing and crying about the thing we share between us two. Mejia I just want you to know that the last time I left your house in Hawthorne, I cried and cried because I didn’t want to leave you alone, but I had to go home. But I want you to know that you will always be in my heart and that I will think of you every day. I know that you are happy because you are with your mom and dad, Mary Louise, Grandma, Tata, Jay, Uncle Joe, Joey ,Chrisy Poo and don’t forget my grandson give him a BIG KISS okay. Well give them all a BIG KISSS from me Okay. Cynthia I am going to kick your butt next time I see you for leaving me alone and how I wish this was all a bad dream. You lied to me because you said you were going to move to Texas with me and we were going to PARTY, I was so excited waiting for that day to come. But I guess it never will because you are gone. I love you god bless you and please watch over my grandson. Until the day we are reunite, please continue to watch over me and my family. Love forever, Nat

  13. Aunt Cynthia, I’m sitting here thinking of our last time together. We were at Marlene’s wedding outside, sharing a drink or 2 together. I remember how beautiful you looked in that chocolate brown dress. We laughed so much that night being chismosas. I am thankful that Lupita took a picture of us together, so that I can always remember that wonderful day. You will truly be missed. I LOVE YOU. Can you give my dad a big hug for me please? I miss him too much and I miss his hugs. Thanks! Johnny Boy, Marlene and Melinda: I love you all and know that I am here whenever you need anything. Marlene, we keep making “dates” to get together but something always gets in the way…lets do a better job from now on. We live too close to not spend time together. All my love and sympathy to you all. Love, Stephanie

  14. Cynthia, You will be missed here on earth but I know that your in a better place full of love and happiness. I’m so sorry for all your tuff times but I know that that is completely co-existant now and that you are now surrounded by those who love you in heaven and that you will never feel lonely again. Take care Cynthia and always remember me because there will come a day when we will all be together again… Love you

  15. Our prayers are with you at this time of grief. please feel free to let us know if their is anything we can do for you. Cristina and Gerry Mercado(Zamora)

  16. (To my cousin n’law/my friend) ‘BE PATIENT MY FRIEND’ “Be patient my friend” Is what I would say’ God will make it right, you’ll see oneday. I’d hear her at night, she’d have on the light.. “I’ve called twenty times, and still not one ‘BITE’. Will the phone ring for me, from one of my girls Or will my boy call from work..does he know he’s my ‘WORLD” She’d dial over and over, until the nights end, I’d say, hang-up, they’ll call ‘Be Patient My Friend.’ ‘Pick up someone answer, I have an ear I could lend’, ‘hang up give a minute,’ a little ‘Patience My Friend’ All she wanted to hear was her loved-ones say hi, she’d sit with her phone, till morning was nigh. On most nights she’d fall fast asleep with her phone, just waiting for someone to call to her home. Her children, her life..held in the palm of her hand, as I slid the phone from her ear, I’d whisper,’Patience My Friend’ short distant calls, or to long distant friends, she had her phone in her ear till her sweet life would end, 🙁 She’d vowed to ‘Right -Wrongs’.. a lost ‘trust’ she would mend, but, you’ve ran out of time, ‘I’m so sorry my friend’ . But ‘God’ knows your heart..and your message he’ll send, to your ‘loved ones who mourne you. yes its ‘Real love Not Pretend’. I want to thank you my ‘Chin-tia’ from the deepest part of ‘My Heart’, for being a friend, roomie, and shoulder..wish we had not to part. but, because of ‘Gods’ plan, and his love for us all, we’ll be reunited one-day.. for the rest of us he’ll call. So, I’ll sadly say ‘Chow’ until the day we’ll meet again’ “HUGZ” -N- “KISSES” from your ‘Dizzy Me’…”I LOVE YOU MY FRIEND”. 😉

  17. To the Valadez Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you! I cannot say anything that would make this hard time easier, but take comfort in the fact that she will be with you always! Lots of Love!

  18. The Broken Chain We knew little that morning that God would call your name. In life we loved you dearly and in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you. You did not go alone. For part of us went with you the day God called you home. You left us many memories! Your love is still our guide. And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same…. But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again! I will always remember Cynthia as being the mother I needed and did not have… She was always there for me! She is truly loved and I will never forget her!!

  19. The Broken Chain We knew little that morning that God would call your name. In life we loved you dearly and in death we do the same. It broke our hearts to lose you. You did not go alone. For part of us went with you the day God called you home. You left us many memories! Your love is still our guide. And though we cannot see you, you are always at our side. Our family chain is broken and nothing seems the same…. But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again! I will always remember Cynthia as being the mother I needed and did not have… She was always there for me! She is truly loved and I will never forget her!!

  20. Well how do i start? Aunt Cynthia, I Love you and miss you alot. I enjoyed all the times that i had with you. When i was little, i was either with my dad camping or with you and my uncle Johnnie taking trips or visiting My uncle johnnie’s side of the family. Just like everyone else stated, i will miss your calls and our talks. But the one thing that i will miss the most is you falling asleep in my car as i drove you to the doctors. even though there was 2 seats you always seemed to lean my way and make your head reach my shoulder. Then i would say, Aunt Cynthia, wake up! Aunt Chinch, i love you and miss you alot. My life isnt going to be the same anymore with you gone. Johnnie Boy and I will be closer then ever now and so will the two girls. Good bye Tia, and until we meet again. Oh yeah Give my grandma a big hug and kiss for me!!!!! Tell her when i come, i will come with a CD for her and an Oldie CD for you.

  21. Mom, Happy Birthday Mom!!! I miss you so much and need you more than you can imagine. Boy Boy, Boski and I visited you yesterday but it is not the same. We just want to hear you call us today and remind us that you only turned 39 and that my dad looks old, but the sad reality is that you are in heaven. I am sure granbo is giving you a grand party. My heart aches and my life has changed drastically. I wanted you there to see Andrew go to school. Mom, Adri really misses you and Anthony always has you in his prayers. I just wish I could see you and hear your voice. There is not a day that goes by that I am filled without you. I am lost without my mom! I love you more than I can ever express. Take care of us mom and until we meet I will never be complete. Love your baby, Marlo.

  22. Mom – Another birthday as passed and it is still so unreal that you are not here. What I would give to hear your voice. As time passes you think we would learn how to cope on the contrary as we need you more than ever now. Rest mom as we know you gave it your all and be peaceful as Bosky, Johnnie Boy and I are closer than we have ever been and we each console eachother as you have taught us. I love you and until the day we meet again I will forever hold you in my heart.

  23. Mom – Another birthday as passed and it is still so unreal that you are not here. What I would give to hear your voice. As time passes you think we would learn how to cope on the contrary as we need you more than ever now. Rest mom as we know you gave it your all and be peaceful as Bosky, Johnnie Boy and I are closer than we have ever been and we each console eachother as you have taught us. I love you and until the day we meet again I will forever hold you in my heart.

  24. Mom – Happy Birthday!! Every year I dread for this month to come now that you are not here. Our birthdays are so close together that I miss having you around to say “Mija I know what you could get me for my birthday?” What I would do to hear those words again. Mom I wish you were here to see your grandson as I know you would have spoiled him to death. He sees your picture daily on the nightstand and grabs it to give you kisses. I’m glad that you gave me two sibilings because they are my rock now. Mom I can’t wait to see you again as I’m sure you look beautiful as ever..Love you mom

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